Give a Female an the Orgasm- The 3 Steps

So you want to give a female an orgasm? Well join the club of millions of men around the world... the club that actually cares about their lover's satisfaction.

Making a woman orgasm isn't as hard as everyone likes to make out. Sure, there can be some difficulties along the way, but you can get there with patience and perseverance.

The first question is whether the woman orgasms on her own. A lot of woman claim they cannot orgasm and that makes your job almost impossible. The reason, because if a woman decides she can't orgasm... she basically can't orgasm... for now.

A woman seems to have a mental switch inside her head that can block her orgasms. Well... maybe 'switch' is not giving it enough credit... it's more like a rubix cube.

It can be caused by anti-depressants, physical, emotional, or sexual abuse, or perhaps something else going on in her mind. The bottom line is sometimes she needs to find the key to her own lock... but I'm not saying you shouldn't be helping her out.

The second step is learning the mechanics of a woman's body... believe it or not, they're very different to your own. As you probably know, a woman needs foreplay to become aroused, so make sure you're warming her engine for at least 20 to 30 minutes beforehand.

Learn her body, explore it with your fingers and your mouth and see how she responds. And for the record, the clitoris is that little bump about an inch above her vaginal opening. If you're attentive, she'll let you know when you've found it.

The third and most important step is arousing her mind. Foreplay helps but you really need to put in the extra effort. Women are abstract thinkers, so you need to do your best to focus her mind on the action at hand, rather than what she needs to buy from the shops tomorrow.

Again, you need to be receptive to her reactions. You should be able to tell if a woman is bored, faking, or staring at the ceiling tiles. Is she moaning and groaning at all the right times? Looking into her eyes is a great way to engage her as well.

When you grasp all three steps you'll have no problems giving a female an orgasm. But you have to realise all are interconnected... fail at one and you'll never reach the prize you both seek.

SOURCE: http://www.amazingyourlovers.com/
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