Do women enjoy sex without orgasm?

I usually enjoy sex even without coming, especially since it's so much work to come. If I've recently come, I prefer not coming again, since the stimulation can be uncomfortable. But if I haven't come in a while, I certainly prefer to.

I am used to masturbate since 11. So I have no difficulties to reach orgasm. During my marital sex clit rubbing or my vib are efficient helps to get my release. We are happy with it.

I am a female, mid 40ies, Europe. I masturbate alone and during sex usually. I couldn´t live without self stimulation.

I've known 3 women that didn't orgasm during sex. One women suffered, and felt immense frustration. She'd get close but never orgasm. Another women seemed fine just having sex without orgasm. A third girl really wants to orgasm, but has no clue how to. And feels deficient for not being able to experience orgasm.

I love being together with a partner sexually and I am not anxious about having an orgasm, when it happens, great, and if not fine too. There is so much more to sexual intimacy that I LOVE!!! I can imagine that alone the fact that female orgasm it is a topic contributes to stress and disables women... And the hormones are a factor too. Tell me about it. Some days I am so hot and want to climax, and usually get to, and other days I just don’t want to go there but enjoy the intimacy and sensuality with a beloved partner. I always wonder why everything has to be black or white. Could life offer us rather than an "either or" an "as well as" reality?

Orgasm is not something I receive - my climax - it is something I co create with my partner or myself.

It's best when my boyfriend rubs my clitoris til I come, or until I'm about to come. Then I can enjoy a vaginal orgasm when he penetrates me, and there's no risk of him coming too early.

Intercourse is better for me if my woman has reached an orgasm. I find oral stimulation of her frenulum (where the inner lips meet) and the underside or her clitoris, together with manual penetration of her vagina on the g-spot generally gives her many relatively quick orgasms. Her vagina is then much nicer to be inside as it tightens up and she enjoys further orgasms by my penis.

Really want to enjoy sex with my partner, but I don't. Instead I experience pain, not the enjoyment everyone talks about.

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Online Survey by Ginger

Below is the result of your feedback form. It was submitted by
ginger () on Sunday, October 10, 1999 at 19:12:46
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Please give us your age: 21
What makes a man a great lover?: A man is a great lover if he responds well to
the woman. Even if he needs to be told or shown how to please his woman he gets
it right.

Does penis size matter?: Yes, if a man has a small penis and you can't hardly
feel him inside you there is not much pleasure to be had.

What is the perfect penis size?: 6.5 in long 3.5 in around

Which matters to you most Size or Sexual Technique?: Definitely technique. If a
man has a large penis and has no technique there is no pleasure.

Describe in detail your most memorable favorite pleasurable intense or erotic
sexual experience you have ever had? And what made it so?: I would have to say
the most intense sexual experience would have to be when my husband and I were
just dating. At the time I was living with my parents and they had a hot tub in
the basement. We wound up having sex in the hot tub with my parents right above
us watching TV. We could hear what was being said on the TV so we were wondering
what they were going to be able to hear.

Describe your favorite sexual technique that when done to you absolutely drives
you wild in bed?: My favorite technique is when my legs are up and my husband
just grinds himself up and down.

Applied to Receiving Oral Sex:: I love it when my husband sucks on my lips, the
ones between my legs.

Applied to Intercourse:: see above

What is your favorite sexual position?: I like being on my back, missionary. Then
I can have some control too, and I can move.

Do you enjoy Anal Sex?: Yes

Have you ever had Anal Intercourse?: Yes

What Anal Sex Activities do you enjoy?: I enjoy all aspects of anal sex, as long
as it isn't too often.
What do you enjoy or dislike about Anal Sex?: I enjoy that I can reach orgasm in
a very short period of time.

What advice would you give men that want to try anal intercourse with their
partners?: Make sure that you have a very good lubricant, if she tells you to
stop because it hurts, DO IT, and make sure to take it very slow.
Describe your favorite sexual technique that when done to you absolutely drives
you wild in bed as applied to Anal Sex?: There is no technique, just the anal sex
drives me wild.

Have you ever had a G-Spot Orgasm?: no.

Have you ever experienced Female Ejaculation?: no.

Please tell us your most desired sexual fantasy?: I fantasize about having my
entire bed covered in rose petals, candle light only, soft music, and having my
lover carry me into the room. I would want him to kiss me all over my body, give
me oral sex until I reached orgasm, then slowly and passionately make love to me
for the entire night.

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Online Survey by Sex Kitten

Below is the result of your feedback form. It was submitted by
sexkitten () on Sunday, October 10, 1999 at 17:09:38
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Please give us your age: 19
What makes a man a great lover?: he knows how to rev my engine! he can get me
all worked up with one lick! he fulfills my desires, and let's me fulfill his

Does penis size matter?: penis size does not matter...it's the motion of the
ocean, not the size of the wave...

What is the perfect penis size?: 7 inches long, 2.5 wide

Which matters to you most Size or Sexual Technique?: sexual technique most
definitely. I do not want a man with a huge penis, but doesn't know how to use
it!

Describe in detail your most memorable favorite pleasurable intense or erotic
sexual experience you have ever had? And what made it so?: my boyfriend fulfilled one of my ultimate fantasies, while I fulfilled on of his. I put on my catholic school girl skirt, with a whipped creme bikini top, and he wore chaps and a cowboy hat. we did it all night long. he tied me up with his lasso, and spanked me because I was a bad girl...and that good school girls shouldn't be bad...we had sex for hours, and then we took a break, 69ed for a little while to relax and take a break, and then had more and more sex!! it was so great!!

Describe your favorite sexual technique that when done to you absolutely drives
you wild in bed?: I love it when he puts my legs up in the air, and thrusts very
deeply inside of me. sometimes, when he stimulates me with his fingers and
thrusts at the same time! oh my god, that drives me wild!!! I always have
multiples!

Applied to Receiving Oral Sex:: it's called the flame! he licks me like a
flickering candle flame! or when he just thrusts his tongue in and out!
Applied to Intercourse:: see question number 6

What is your favorite sexual position?: from behind, or missionary with my legs
up in the air, or resting on his shoulders! that drives me crazy with ecstasy

Do you enjoy Anal Sex?: No

Have you ever had Anal Intercourse?: No

What Anal Sex Activities do you enjoy?: no comment

What do you enjoy or dislike about Anal Sex?: no comment

What advice would you give men that want to try anal intercourse with their
partners?: no comment

Describe your favorite sexual technique that when done to you absolutely drives
you wild in bed as applied to Anal Sex?: no comment

Have you ever had a G-Spot Orgasm?: it is magnificent. it is better than
everything I've felt before...he rubs it when he thrusts deeply, and it makes my
body quiver with delight

Have you ever experienced Female Ejaculation?: no comment

Please tell us your most desired sexual fantasy?: I want to be taken. I want to
be a southern belle in a old fashioned hoop skirt, and a corset hugging me, so
tight. and my man, he would be wearing the uniform of a confederate solider, or
maybe an old fashioned suit and tie...he would take me over his knee, and spank
me, and then he would do with me as he liked
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