Oral Sex Positions

A good oral sex position can make the difference between a hot and fun oral romp and an awkward ten minutes that leaves you with a pain in the neck. While it’s true that most of us are just excited to be receiving oral sex and may not care so much about the position, for oral sex lovers (both the giving and receiving kind) changing up the position can also change the experience. Positions may give either or both partners more access to touching body parts and certain positions easily highlight the power dynamic potential of oral sex.

Oral Sex Positions Tip #1 – On Your Knees:
This classic position (well classic in porn anyway) can evoke the power dynamics in oral sex well. Despite being usually represented as a position for fellatio, a woman can also receive oral sex while standing with a partner kneeling in front of them. Benefits of this position are the visuals, the fact that the giving partner may be able to use their hands, as well as being a position that doesn’t require a lot of room and can be gotten into and out of relatively quickly. The drawback is that it’s hard on the knees (a pillow under them helps a bit) and it can be hard on the neck as well.

Oral Sex Positions Tip #2 – Between the Legs:
A much more comfortable position than being on your knees, in this common position the receiving partner lies on the back with the giver further down between their legs. There are a lot of variations on this position where the receiving partner bends their knees or lifts their legs right up off the bed (they can rest on the givers shoulders). The receiving partner can also turn on their side, and this may be even more comfortable for a giving partner who has neck problems.

Oral Sex Positions Tip #3 – Right Angle Approach:
In this position the receiving partner lies flat on their back and the giving partner positions themselves at a right angle with head at their partners genitals. Giving oral sex at this position changes the usual direction of stroking/licking from up-and-down to side-to-side. Side-to-side stimulation, particularly for women can be more intense and may be preferred. This position also allows the giver greater hand reach if they want to stimulate the legs and feet or head of their partner.

Oral Sex Positions Tip #4 – Face Sitting:
If you’re prone to giggling this may not be the oral sex position for you as it may remind you of a childhood game in a non-sexy way. Otherwise this position can work well, particularly with a woman on top. It’s great if the giver has any mobility restrictions or fatigues easily, and it also provides a lot of dominance/submission potential. The receiver can sit over the givers face either crouching or with their shins on the bed, and can even lean forward and support their own upper body with their hands (so they’re kind of in a rear entry position).

Oral Sex Positions Tip #5 – On the Edge of Your Seat:
A more relaxed version of the on your knees position, in this one the receiver sits in a comfy chair with their bum out towards the edge (this also works on the edge of a bed or couch of course). This position is much easier for the giver who can be on their knees or sitting but can shift some of the weight of their own body from their knees to their upper body by using the chair for some support. One drawback to this position is that it doesn’t offer the same kind of access to the receiver’s full body.

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Tell your partner to lie back, propping up his head and shoulders with a pillow, and have him spread his legs slightly. While you're facing the same direction — your back is to his face — lower yourself onto his hardened penis. Put your feet between his legs on the floor or the bed. Take your right hand and place it on his right hip bone and your left hand on the bed next to his left hip bone. Use your hands and feet to move your body up and down on his shaft.

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10 Best Sex Positions of 2009

How would you like to start this year off with a bang? I am about to show you some very sexy moves that will help start your New Year off right. Here are the 10 best sex positions of 2009.

1. The Snow Plow - Guys, if you love to have a wild time with your woman then you should try this position. (Warning: This position requires your woman to have a considerable amount of flexibility). Lay your woman on her back. Raise her feet up over her head.

2. The Pirate's Bounty - This Position you will be kneeling. Her legs will be on the outside of yours. Her leg should be on your shoulder. This position allows you to be very close.

3. The Lap Dancing Cowgirl - One of the best sex positions that I know you men out there will enjoy because your woman gets to do all the work. Ladies your man will be sitting in a chair (make sure it is a chair that can hold two people) you will sit on him from the front.

4. Bend Over Backwards - I think it is good for couples to try new sex positions from time to time so they can keep there sex life exciting. This happens to be one of the sex positions that you can have fun trying. You will need your living-room sofa for this sex act. Have your woman bend backwards on the arm of your sofa. This position is very stimulating to both couples.

5. The Basset Hound - Have your carpet cleaned because with this sex act you both will be on the floor. Have your woman kneel on the floor. Have her leaning forward with her arms flat on the floor. Her legs should be apart. Tip: (It is something similar to the doggy style position).

6. The Ben Dover Position - This position will take some balancing skills. Tell your woman to stand in the middle of the floor, now tell her to bend over and touch the floor with her hands, she should still be standing when she does this.

7. Acrobat - Your woman will be on top this time. You will be lying on the bed facing upward. Have your woman also facing upward when she gets on top of you. This is very challenging for you both.

8. The Cross - Ladies your man will lay down on the bed as if he is going to sleep (with his head on the pillow) have him turn on his side. Ladies you will lay on your back with your legs over his hip area.

9. The Deck Chair - This is one of the best positions this year because this is a very comfortable position for the two of you. Have your woman lay down on the bed (on her back). Tell her to lift her knees up as if she is sitting in a chair (make sure she is lying down).

10. The Intersextion - This sex position is definitely something to try. Have your woman lay down on her side and lifting her right leg. You should be lying on top of her and your bottom left leg should be facing her. Enter her from this angle. Her right leg should be over your hip.More: Globalsexsurvey.net

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Sex Positions for the Best Sex Ever

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A Man's Guide to Knowing Her Sweet Spots

Ok so you want to know about us women... Well what better way to learn about women then from a woman. So lets begin. When it comes to knowing your woman's body are you in touch with all her sweet spots. That is, are you enjoying all that your woman has to offer? Or do you just stick to what you know? Well here are a few spots that you might like to try if you have not done so already.

What every great relationship needs is great Foreplay so that is what I will be starting off with.
Foreplay
Keep in mind that foreplay should last at lest 20 minutes to achieve the staying power that you are seeking. Never rush take your time and enjoy your love play with your partner.

Here are some Sweet Spots to get you started:


Lips:
Women love to kiss. They exude a lot of emotion through their kisses. Have fun playing with her. If you know how to manipulate her lips just right through kissing, licking, sucking and biting, it is very possible that a kiss will lead to a lot more than that. Use your lips, your tongue and your teeth to play with her top and bottom lip and kiss her with absolute passion.


Nape of the Neck:
Just breathing on this part of her body will give her goose bumps all over. So just imagine her reaction when you use your tongue or teeth to get her aroused.

Do not forget to use your hands as well. Lift her hair up gently as you bring your mouth closer to her neck. Then, as you sink your teeth into it, pull on her hair slightly so as to give that "I want you sooo bad" impression.

This part of a woman's body is also a good place to start giving her that sensual massage you are famous for and no woman can resist.

Ears:
Many women enjoy having their ears licked, sucked or kissed. Although blowing in her ear is acceptable, it's not what women enjoy most. Besides the few little things that I have mentioned they also like it when you whisper in their ears.

They enjoy sweet nothings not something like, "What time do the playoffs start tonight?" Try to be somewhat erotic and give her the shivers up and down her spine instead. Instead tell her how beautiful she is and how much you love her

Wrists:
This may come as a shock to most guys but did you know that a woman's wrist is an erogenous zone. Women love having their wrists nuzzled and nibbled by their partners. The next time you're getting into the foreplay of things with your woman, woo here with soft sensual kisses and caressing her wrists and just check out how impressed and turned on she'll become!

Breasts (nipples):
As I am sure this is no surprise to anyone, the breasts are very sexually sensitive and gentle fondling, squeezing, caressing, licking and sucking of the nipples can be extremely arousing. Just as well, many women like it when their guys get a little rough with their breasts, so find out how she likes it and give it to her the way she wants!

Behind the Knees:
Because of all the nerve endings behind the knees, you'd be surprised at how crazy a woman can become when you gently lick or nibble on the back of her knees. Soft gentle nibbles and and sweet soft butterfly kisses. She will love it. Try it!

Be careful not to overdo it -- the area, after all, is very sensitive and you must be careful not to make the sensation annoying by getting too rough or tickling her too much.

Feet:
Many women enjoy having their feet touched, massaged and some even enjoy having them licked and sucked. I am not into the licking and sucking part but I do love a nice massage. I as well do not mind a little nibble. Now this of course is assuming that their feet have been properly cleansed, sounds silly but you make the conclusion. Women enjoy it when their men spend time caressing their soles, toes and ankles. Because these zones can all be ticklish, the sensation of ticklishness can be pleasant for the recipient.

While some men cringe at the thought of wrapping their mouths around a body part that spends most of its day sweating in leather, many guys are actually pretty keen on the idea of giving their women a good toe lashing every now and then. If you do not like the thought of touching your tongue on her toes. try and make it interesting. Try adding whipped cream or something fun like that. Make it fun, loving your partner is not supposed to be a stressing act.

Buttocks:
Yes, it's true. Lots of women like it when you play around with their behinds. A lot of women like mild spanking and squeezing of the buttocks. But there's more... Now this is not something that I like or even like to describe so this is for the women who do like it.

Some women like having their butts licked, sucked and penetrated (with fingers, penis or both). For those who shudder at the thought of sticking their tongues out at Uranus, I'm sure that anal penetration, on the other hand, sounds quite inviting, huh?

Inner Thighs:
Now the inside of the thighs are highly sensitive to touching, stroking, nibbling and licking. Just like the back of the knees, inner thighs also have many nerve endings, therefore when you fondle them, you will turn her on like crazy. Remember not to bite only to nibble gently because the area is very sensitive and doing so would only cause her mild pain.

And for most woman I am sure that I have saved the best for last.

Vagina/Clitoris:
The clitoris can be stimulated by using the tongue, the finger or, for the multi-talented, both simultaneously. Some women like to guide their lovers as to the specific amount of pressure they enjoy. The key to a great sex life is communication. Communicate with your partner and be honest as to what you want and enjoy.

For those who have not had that luxury, it's usually quite evident whether or not she's pleased with your performance. For instance if she begins getting squirmy, make sure that it's because she's enjoying it and not because you're giving her that "annoying" feeling. If she is enjoying it you will defiantly see the results of your actions. See will be wet from the vaginal secretions from all the pleasure that you are giving her.

When you are ready to move on to something more and are ready to take her over the edge even more find her g-spot. In the vagina, the G-spot may be a little difficult to locate, but some women find the search quite worthwhile. There is an area inside some women's vaginas that produces intense sexual feelings when stimulated. Once located, very gentle stimulation gives an incredibly pleasant and unusual sensation.

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Best Positions for Sex During Pregnancy

If you're pregnant, or just found out you were, you're probably wondering what the best pregnant sex positions are. Because your body doesn't change that much in the first trimester, sex can pretty much continue as it has in the past so there really isn't a need to be concerned about pregnant positions for sex. Later, however, as the uterus grows, some natural positions may become more difficult to perform and will require you to choose better sex positions while pregnant. Sex expert Pepper Schwartz, PhD, offers these suggestions on the best pregnant sex positions:

Spoon: The spoon position can be very cozy and intimate. In this case you should lie on your side curled in a C, with your partner facing your back and curled around you. He then enters your vagina from behind while both of you are lying on your sides.

Side by side: Another good choice for late pregnancy, this position will control thrust and keep weight off your belly. You and your husband lie side by side, facing each other. He slips his leg over yours (your leg can be either straight and to the side or bent at the knee) and enters you from an angle. In a variation of this, you lie on your back and he on his side. Put your leg that's closest to him over his legs. He can enter you from the back and side, and still have his face next to yours.

Woman on top: This can be a satisfying position during late pregnancy, allowing you to control pacing and be more comfortable. Make sure, however, that he doesn't enter you too deeply.

Edge of the bed: Try lying down face-up on the edge of the bed, with your legs spread and the soles of your feet on the floor. Your partner can stand or bend over you. This position, however, does allow him to thrust more deeply, so you'll have to tell him how gentle and slow you want him to be.

If you find that intercourse is too uncomfortable as your belly grows, explore other types of sexual gratification, such as oral sex (don't blow air into the vagina) or mutual masturbation.


Compiled by Dottie Enrico
MORE ON:http://health.discovery.com/centers/pregnancy/americanbaby/sexpositions.html

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Position Secrets for a Faster Orgasm Every Time

by D. Claire Hutchins

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After you and your partner have participated in foreplay, however much you want, and when you feel ready for sex, have your man lie on his back, his penis aroused and standing ready for you to straddle him. Don't be in too much of a hurry to get him inside of you. Take advantage of the opportunity to display your body; he will love watching you work. With him on his back and you on your knees, swing one leg over him and balance your weight on your knees. Then lean forward to take some of your weight on your hands. Take his penis in hand and rub your moist vaginal lips and clitoris against it. Tease the head of his penis by sliding it back and forth across your vaginal opening, occasionally inserting just the tip and taking it out again. Finally, slide it in gently and slowly. You may need to use a free hand, or he can use his, to guide his penis into your vagina. Straddling his thighs, you lower yourself onto his penis. Once he is inside of you, sink down on him, remaining upright from the waist up.

In this position, you control the depth of penile penetration and the pace of thrusting. You manipulate the amount of friction and the speed. You have an infinite variety of movements. You can raise your body up and down, bend forward with your breasts touching his chest or slide your breasts back and forth. You can move your pelvis and abdomen sideways and in all directions to give different kinds of erotic pleasure. Lean forward to create friction between his pubic bone and your clitoris. Men may want to arch their backs and raise their pelvises to help create a connection between the clitoris and penis.

Be a Champion at Lovemaking
Try all variations and see what stimulates you most. You will be very deeply penetrated, and the man's most sensitive area is buried deeply within your moist and warm vagina. Your partner can rest while enjoying exquisite sensations. When you have your orgasm, he can feel the rippling of your vaginal muscles much more intensely than in any other position.

Above all, this position is comfortable for most women, gives us greater freedom of movement and puts us in control of our own orgasm. Some of us may be mentally uncomfortable with what our physiological inhibitions may be telling us is aggressive exhibitionism. Tell your mind to shut up. Be sure to close your eyes, at least part of the time. Don't examine your body, don't worry about how you look and don't try to analyze what he is thinking throughout the whole thing.

By parting the vaginal lips and leaning forward to your partner's chest, you can bring your clitoris directly into contact with the base of the man's penis, and rubbing the exposed shaft of his penis against your clitoris may be all the direct stimulation of the clitoris you need to reach orgasm.

Another option is to have your lover place his thumb on your clitoris and hold it firmly in place while you move up and down, but the position of his hand may feel somewhat awkward for you both. It seems that when men stimulate their partners, they don't do it very well. Maybe he feels awkward, embarrassed or resentful. I believe most simply do not share the same sense of rhythm as their women. And it is also objectionable because you've turned your response back over to him.

For some women, changing from the missionary to the female-superior may be all that is necessary to achieve orgasm easier than you ever thought possible. Learning how to "ride" your man will make you a champion at lovemaking.

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