How You Can Have More Hot, Passionate Sex Tonight

By Maurice Tate

Are you making love the same way you have done for years?
Does your lover just love how you make love and really wants lots of sex?
I suggest if your sex life is boring then one tip is to develop more of a partner connection for hotter sex. I find the more connected I am with my partner the more fulfilling sex is.

One question I ask my clients is...
How often do you orgasm with your eyes open?
One way of deepening the intimacy with your partner connection is by having your eyes open more times during sex.
This deepens sexual intimacy and is very challenging for a lot of people who are not really connected during sex. Their bodies might connect but the connection of their spirit can be non existent.

However is you want to change your sex life you have to try different, somewhat fearful new behaviors.

Try opening your eyes and connecting with your partner. See if you can even have an orgasm when looking into your partners eyes! Its pretty hard to be unconnected with your eyes open looking at your lover.
One can kiss with eyes open and then move back a little to really look at your lover. Then move in for another kiss etc. Kissus interruptus!
The psychologist David Schnarch recommends a practice of sexual intimacy of hugging to relaxed.

Stand balanced on our own two feet. Put your arms around your partner. Focus on yourself and relax right down. Really relax. Take minutes or longer in the practice. As you settle down you can find you breath starts to go in time with each other and a connection develops.

I personally have found a few times that I can go in a energy orgasm in time with my lovers orgasms from this practice with no sex at all.

Maurice Tate is a qualified sexologist trained at the Advanced Institute of Sexology. He works with couples and individuals to explore altered sexual states and to deepen orgasms and pleasure during sex.



SOURCE: GlobalSexSurvey.Net